It is naive to presume the understanding of others thoughts, feelings and ultimately actions. The depth of each individuals emotions far outweigh that that we could possibly perceive. .
Just because we don't understand doesn't mean we are entitled to a verbal opinion, it is probable that we are alluded to the fact that lives aren't as pretty and perfect as they seem.
Aware or unaware of the words spoken, lets be more conscious of our solecistic and controlling tendencies. .
Let us do what we want with the life we have, unless others interfere with yours you have no right to remark on the way they live theirs.