For the children. .
Co-parenting like any other relationship, will go through highs and lows. The journey we have been on the past 3 and half years has not always been easy. I love where we are right now and I love seeing our children benefit from it. .
AJ loved having his sisters join us for a holiday party. Mariah came running to me when she got a hurt finger. Ari sat in my lap, leaned her head on me and told me, "I love you," in the cutest 2 year old voice. .
I love these kids. I love watching them interact with each other. I love watching them grow. But I really love that AJ's dad and stepmom share them with me. .
So often in a divorce or split, one or both parents have grown a hard heart. I did. Having a hard heart disallows us to think about our children first, before our own feelings, insecurities and egos. So I encourage you all who may have a similar situation, to not focus on changing anything but your own heart. Soften it, and put your own "stuff" aside and see what blessings come from that. Remember that just because you are changing, doesn't mean the other will change along side of you. Give them time to see and grow in their own after watching you. .
Remember, we do it for the children. Teach them how to be kind to those we don't agree with. Teach them how to love anyone who becomes their family. Show them you love them, by letting them love. And if you can't quite figure it out, let them be your teacher, because kids love fiercely if you give them the space to do so. .
I can't brag about my love for God because i fail him daily.but i can brag about his love for me because it never fails.
"It is not the going out of a port"
Or coming in that determine the success of a voyage # always work towards ur destination with prayers #hapi Sunday friends"
One of the simplest ways to stay happy is by letting go of the things that makes you sad.
یکی از ساده ترین راه ها برای شاد موندن اینه که بیخیال تمام چیزهایی که ناراحتت میکنه ،بشی....
5812 days ago
never change for someone.
If they can’t accept you for who you are at your worst, they don’t deserve to see you ar your best.
هرگزبرای کسیتغییر نکن.
اگهنمیتونن بخاطر آنچه که تو بدترین حالتت هستی بپذیرنت، پس لایق دیدن بهترین حالتت نیستن.