Can we get really clear on something? If he is always taking breaks or wants one, give it to him. And make sure he never has the opportunity to grace your doorstep again. Usually they want this time to investigate the crotch of another woman and you’re not a back burner chick. You are the one and only or none at all. Stop letting these men put you on pause love. Men also do this to check your temperature. When he returns he gets to reset the relationship. In his absence you’ll be so distraught that when he comes back you don’t even address why he disappeared or wanted the break. Your bed isn’t a break room. He can’t go work on another chick and come see you when he’s not working on her. Cut these stragglers off!
#bigmood for #selfcaresunday Healing and becoming that sought after feminine woman by men begins with unapologetic selfcare. The reason why you hear so much about selfcare right now because it is the gateway to loving yourself. When you do things daily that truly honor you then when someone enters your life who doesn’t, you know the difference. Your peace of mind and selflove won’t be for sale because you already have love. For yourself. And if they don’t then you’ll know it instead of searching for it in them.