I knew, long before he said the words...
That my now husband, loved me.
His actions. He showed me that he loved me... Then, one night when I looked into his eyes, smiled at him and said 'Tell me how you feel.' He said 'You already know'... .
So tell me... WHY... Why do we excuse and justify the bad actions of people on the basis of 'oh, but they are family.' Heck no!
Would you take that from a 'friend' or 'partner'. No! You would remove them from your life! So WHY (seriously why!?) Do we allow people to treat us badly just because they are 'family.'
I judge on action.
You say you're a friend, show me.
You say you're organised, show me.
Don't tell me you care... SHOW ME.
Never, ever (EVER), justify someone's bad actions because of what they SAY to you, or because they are family, or your partner... .
~ Aimee xx .